Just curious what im doing wrong as far as making friends,?

i work in a resort and you would think thats a great place to meet people and make friends, i never and i mean never get invited out, people never come to my rm to visit, now im having two hip surgeries and its extended to my hospital stay, i was in the hospital between thurs and sun, no one offered to go to the or with me, and when i was in the hospital, no flowers, cards, nada, not even visitors. now im in rehab which is only an hr away instead of two, still nada, im not a bad person, and its hard to believe people can be that cruel, i wouldve loved a normal hospital stay with visitors, cards, flowers, etc., it makes me feel weird to be ignored so much, i mean, i know theyre not my family but still, i feel like im missing something here, even people from church wont visit me, im not a clingy person, i can entertain myself. its not like i need the visitors since the nurses are helping me out but its the questions in my mind like why am i so bad i cant get them? surgery is hard enough, and i have to do it again in 6 wks, any ideas on to why this is happening? i know others that are in the hospital from my resort and they get tons of visitors, stuff sent to them etc., so why are they so special? so what exactly am i doing wrong? dont need the visitors, just need my curiousity satisfied