What does it mean when "your husband leaves all the important decision making to you"?

I think that probably, more than anything, he's afraid to upset you or to choose the wrong decision. By telling you to choose everything, he believes that everything will happen the way it is supposed to, at least in his eyes. You sound ike an independent woman, and I bet he loves that about you-but to continue to encourage him, you should try including him in more minor decisions rather than just the important ones. For example, you can start with something small such as "honey, what do you think of my dress?" and then ask him for his input on various occasions so he develops more of a "steadfast opinion", so when the time comes around to discuss an important issue, he is more open to giving input. Tell him that as a family, your decisions are both equal and if you come to a conclusion together, everyone will be happier in the end and you won't have to worry endlessly. Best of luck to you :)